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Only You Can Fix Yourself

Only You Can FIX You.

Stop waiting for someone to come along and fix all the problems in your life. There is no magic fairy, doctor or miracle cure sitting on some shelf in a pharmacy. Yes, you can take all the drugs you want but in the end, the solution is in your hands. More specifically, in your mind, your brain, and consciousness. 

No doctor can fix, you. No amount of talking will get you the solution you seek unless you are willing to put in the effort to change. There is no solution to anything in life if you sit back and wait for a miracle to solve your issues. 

If you are fat, you know you need to eat less and move more!

So go and do it. Is it hard, is it painful? Oh hell yes! Only you can make that happen. 

Eat Less!

If you are fat, eat less and also find out why you are binge eating or constantly snacking. You know it is a work-related thing or a personal thing. Maybe it’s a family thing or some past trauma. You know all the answers, they are all in your head sitting on a small shelf somewhere like a lost jar of pickles in a refrigerator. 

Finding a way to deal with your problems is certainly not easy. Sometimes drastic changes are required and it is up to you to get off your fat ass and do something about it. No one on this planet and no amount of prayer will make your fat disappear. So who’s fault is it? It’s yours and yet all you do is sit there and feel sorry for yourself as you wolf down another burger, a bag of chips, or a slice of cake because you had a hard day and you “deserve” it.

Alter Your Life

Change, your life. Are you unhappy with yourself? Are you unhappy with your job? 

Are you unhappy because…

You can fill in the blanks there and be on your merry way to happiness. Alright, we know it won’t be that easy but you can take baby steps. Be aware of what you are doing and once you decide, then you can reach out to people for support. If you want to quit smoking, you know what you need to do, stop. Stop it now and deal with the pain for the next few days. 

Oh but you don’t want to stop, so in that case stop whining and crying about your problems and use your energy for better things. Everyone knows the way to find the solution. If you can afford liposuction to get rid of your fat go do it. However, in the end, it’s you, stuffing cheesecakes and burgers in your face that is causing the weight gain. You get it right? It’s no one else’s fault but yours! 

Zsolt Zsemba

Zsolt Zsemba has worn many different hats. He has been an entrepreneur, and businessman for over 30 years. Living abroad has given him many amazing experiences in life and also sparked his imagination for writing. After moving to Canada from Hungary at the age of 10 and working in a family business for a large part of his life. The switch from manufacturing to writing came surprisingly easily for him. His passion for writing began at age 12, mostly writing poetry and short stories. In 1999, the chance came to write scripts. Zsolt took some time off from his family business to write in Jakarta Indonesia for MD Entertainment. Having written dozens of soap operas and made for TV movies, in 2003 Zsolt returned to the family business once more. In 2018, he had the chance to head back to Asia once again. He took on the challenge to be the COO for MD Pictures and get back into the entertainment business. The entertainment business opened up the desire to write once more and the words began to flow onto the pages again. He decided to rewrite a book he began years ago. Organ House was reborn and is a fiction suspense novel while Scars is a young adult drama focused on life’s challenges. After the first two books, his desire to write not only became more challenging but enjoyable as well. After having several books completed he was convinced to publish them for your enjoyment. Zsolt does not tend to stay in one specific genre but tends to lean towards strong female leads and horror. Though he also has a few human interest books, he tends to write about whatever brews in his brain for a while.