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What’s Stopping You?

What’s Stopping You?

What’s wrong with you? Like seriously look at your life at this very moment and think about all and everything that’s wrong with you and your life this very second. Stop and think. 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9,10. Okay, so you took a moment and paused. 

Think about your work, partner, kids, family, anxiety, addiction, or financial issues.

Maybe it was something completely different like sexual abuse, physical or mental abuse by a partner, co-worker, and so forth. Some of these things can have long and lasting effects but in most cases, one can get through these when we stop the blame game. (for certain cases, professional counseling is a must.)

In The End

For the average person… If you are in financial difficulties and you are still buying your expensive coffee at Starbucks, and are still eating out 3 times a day for example, the situation is not going to fix itself. 

If you are spending money on goods, food, and things you do not need and are suffering from financial problems. Stop buying your dinners, coffees, and other materialistic goods, and fix your spending habits. Once more that problem is caused by and can only be fixed by yours truly. 

If you have a problem, go to the ATM take out a certain amount of cash, and leave your debit and credit cards at home. Ration yourself a certain amount of money for the week or the month. Go make some sandwiches or cook your meals. If you don’t know how to cook and that is your excuse, there are about a billion cooking videos on YouTube. Don’t give yourself an excuse to get out of that one!   

But…

There are no ifs and’s or buts here! There is only you and I and we are kicking ass. Mostly your ass in this case. What’s stopping you is your mindset and your attitude. 

You certainly have an attitude and it’s mostly bad.

Has anyone ever told you that you are an opinionated asshole? Maybe someone needs to and maybe that someone needs to be you, yourself that drills that thought in your head. 

I am like this because… I choose to be!

No one else can make you nice, good, respectful, or kind. Only you can say positive, negative, kind, or abusive words to yourself and others. So start by being kind to yourself and others. You may be surprised by the results

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Zsolt Zsemba

Zsolt Zsemba has worn many different hats. He has been an entrepreneur, and businessman for over 30 years. Living abroad has given him many amazing experiences in life and also sparked his imagination for writing. After moving to Canada from Hungary at the age of 10 and working in a family business for a large part of his life. The switch from manufacturing to writing came surprisingly easily for him. His passion for writing began at age 12, mostly writing poetry and short stories. In 1999, the chance came to write scripts. Zsolt took some time off from his family business to write in Jakarta Indonesia for MD Entertainment. Having written dozens of soap operas and made for TV movies, in 2003 Zsolt returned to the family business once more. In 2018, he had the chance to head back to Asia once again. He took on the challenge to be the COO for MD Pictures and get back into the entertainment business. The entertainment business opened up the desire to write once more and the words began to flow onto the pages again. He decided to rewrite a book he began years ago. Organ House was reborn and is a fiction suspense novel while Scars is a young adult drama focused on life’s challenges. After the first two books, his desire to write not only became more challenging but enjoyable as well. After having several books completed he was convinced to publish them for your enjoyment. Zsolt does not tend to stay in one specific genre but tends to lean towards strong female leads and horror. Though he also has a few human interest books, he tends to write about whatever brews in his brain for a while.