The Older I get…
…the less I believe in people. The less faith I have in people the less I trust people. When certain people cannot answer a simple question and you know they are lying…
Well, let’s say I know.
The person who pours their heart and soul out to you and tells you things the way they are are the keepers. The people who shy away from answers and get upset at certain questions are the ones hiding the truth. Run from those people, cause those are the red flags. The older I get the more I see and the less I am inclined to engage with people. I do not need more and more problems. Yet it is difficult to find people who have their shit together and are not in need of babysitting. I do not mean the ones that claim “I am the independent woman and I don’t need a man” No those can go to hell with their attitude and bullshit. I am just seeking nice people who have a sense of humor, can shoot the shit, have fun and enjoy life.
People Often Ask Me…
Why are you single? Well, so far I have yet to meet an open honest person who is not hiding, lying, or stealing. So let me clear that up. I am an open book. Wanna meet me I’ll meet but don’t be dicking me around. Don’t be using me and don’t be playing games.
That shit I don’t need.
When the messages are about, did you eat, did you shower, did you sleep well, I hate my job, I am done. Those people may be asking 2 other men the same question because they cannot remember the shit they may or may not have said to others.
The Red Flags
Lying, misleading, cheating, and overall being a little skittish and non-communicative is a red flag. If I meet someone I expect them to be loyal, caring, and understanding. In return, I’ll be the same. However, without that communication and those skills, there is not much to build on.
So yes, half stories, avoiding questions, and not answering others are some of my big red flags.
When someone asks you “You don’t trust me?” Well yeah I don’t and you seem to know it so maybe rectify whatever the hell we are talking about to reassure me that yah things are ok. Lack of trust and trusting someone are the hardest things for me to do. So there you have it. Wanna be friends with me, be open and honest, and don’t be a piece of lying shit because eventually you will forget the lies you told.
So yeah, the red flags are waving and waving hard for most people that I meet. So if you come running at me waving and ready to give me all your bullshit and lies, just keep running until you hit the edge of a cliff and learn to fly… Bye-bye.
