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Read more about the article You Are What You Like
You Are What You Like

You Are What You Like

  • Post author:Zsolt Zsemba
  • Post published:October 28, 2026
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Your likes train the algorithm, and the algorithm trains you. See how your feed shapes your politics, relationships and mental health, and how to retrain it.

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Your Likes Never Leave the Room

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  • Post published:October 27, 2026
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Your likes, follows and comments are public clues. See how social media activity affects jobs and relationships, and what your partner’s feed reveals.

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Read more about the article Does Everything You Do Come Back to You?
Karma

Does Everything You Do Come Back to You?

  • Post author:Zsolt Zsemba
  • Post published:October 26, 2026
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This essay reframes karma as the everyday echo of how we treat people, not a mystical scoreboard. Through examples of hurt, kindness, anger, and purpose, it shows how our habits shape our circle, our peace of mind, and the problems we faceβ€”and invites us to choose better moments.

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Read more about the article Intention Explains You, Action Proves You: A Lesson in Behaviour
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Intention Explains You, Action Proves You: A Lesson in Behaviour

  • Post author:Zsolt Zsemba
  • Post published:October 13, 2026
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A closing look at what ten posts on carelessness, apology, and accountability actually add up to: intention explains why, only action repairs what it did.

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Why Words Hurt Longer Than Physical Pain

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  • Post published:October 12, 2026
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The science and psychology behind why verbal wounds outlast physical ones, and what actually helps them heal.

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Don’t Be Surprised When I Stop Giving You the Chance

  • Post author:Zsolt Zsemba
  • Post published:October 11, 2026
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Why walking away from repeated unintended hurt isn't cruelty, it's a boundary finally catching up to a pattern.

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Damage is done

Intention Doesn’t Repair the Damage, Accountability Does

  • Post author:Zsolt Zsemba
  • Post published:October 10, 2026
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Why explanations of intention often feel like a dodge, and what real accountability sounds and looks like in practice.

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You Didn’t Mean to Hurt Me, You Also Didn’t Mean to Lose Me

  • Post author:Zsolt Zsemba
  • Post published:October 9, 2026
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How the same blind spot that causes small hurts eventually costs the whole relationship, and why good intentions can't replace attention.

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You Knew What You Meant, That’s Why It Hurts More

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  • Post published:October 8, 2026
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The real difference between careless words and deliberate ones, and why "I was angry" doesn't cover a chosen sentence.

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