Why Help Others?
In many ways, this is a stupid question. If you don’t get it, you don’t get it. However, the point here then would be…
Why aren’t you helping anyone?
Today, you may not need help, but tomorrow you may. For me, I help because I can. Helping does not mean throwing money at people. Helping by listening is giving your time. If time is money, I am throwing quite a bit of money at people. We are making this clear that help is not monetary but time is equal to cash right? So why do this in the first place? Why offer time to help others?
I believe I Have Said This Before
As outlined in my book John Doe vs Evil when we needed help, everyone conveniently f*ucked right off and out of lives. So in the current process of thinking, I want to pay it forward and help while I can.
Sometimes all I need to do is listen.
Sometimes be straightforward
Sometimes be very tough
Sometimes give advice.
Sometimes people cry.
This has happened now for business and personal problems as well and I think I am pretty good at this.
Life Coaching
It seems that the more and more people I meet, the more people I find need help. This is a no-brainer as the math would add up at some point. Very few people have it all together. To sum it all up, more people need help than don’t.
I try hard not to tell people about my problems or issues. I try hard to handle things myself and yeah this can be hard. However, in the end, I feel I am better off finding solutions to my problems. That works for me. Being in business for a long time, dealing with hundreds of people as employees, gives you a good idea of people’s characters.
As I found this out last week, your gut feeling is the best feeling to go with. The first time I met this particular person, I had bad vibes. Over the months that passed, I gave them the benefit of the doubt and thought I was wrong. In the end, my original gut feeling was correct.
So why help, people?
In the end, it feels good to be able to give advice that people can benefit from. I have formed very good friendships over the years by doing this. Do people disappoint me? Oh hell yes! More often than not people will disappoint you in life. However, the ones that don’t and the ones that come through for you will be the friendships you form for a lifetime.
Why I Enjoy Helping Others…
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