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Privacy?

My Privacy?

The other day I posted a blog about being single and someone messaged me on Instagram and said, “It’s no one’s business why you are single, it is no one’s business” Yes they sure are correct but at the same time, my life is part of many individual lives. I guess sometimes I underestimate the whole social media life. 

Some surprisingly look forward to seeing my TikTok live. Some message me, when they missed the TikTok, live or I didn’t do one. I said this before but I feel like a radio host at times. 

But back to privacy… I talk about my life, my kids, my daily outings, and life in general. I post a blog a day and sometimes I feel I overshare and other times I feel it’s just enough. 

So What About Personal Life?

There are many things I refuse to share. Such as personal problems and family issues. Dating for the most part I do not discuss but often joke about it on the TikTok live and in content as well. 

I do keep things to myself that could come around and boomerang on me most of the time. Sometimes things sneak out and sometimes things are not at all what they seem. More often than not, the viewers and followers make up their minds about what’s happening in my life. 99% of the time they are wrong and even if they do guess it right, I claim that they are wrong. It makes life simple and they do not go on and on asking me silly questions that I don’t need to answer and they do not need to know. That is my true privacy. 

I Am or Was an Introvert.

I do not know how to explain this but I’ll try. I have always been an introvert. I have been and I was until all this stuff started blowing up and forced me out of my shell. 

I remember trying to approach Keiven in the rice field and trying hard to speak the Indonesian language to get his story for my blog. Here I was coming out of my shell. I guess no matter how old you are, you can change. 

In high school, I would rather run away from people than interact with strangers. I would blush when people looked at me, never mind talking to me. On the soccer field, I was rough, and tough and screamed the whole game to get the team going. yet off the field, I was shy. Now I wish I weren’t. I wish I could go back in time and fix this but I cannot. 

So now there are times when I need to kick myself in the ass and get on TikTok or talk to people. But most of that is gone. Now I can say I have changed and I feel it is for the better. 

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Zsolt Zsemba

Zsolt Zsemba has worn many different hats. He has been an entrepreneur, and businessman for over 30 years. Living abroad has given him many amazing experiences in life and also sparked his imagination for writing. After moving to Canada from Hungary at the age of 10 and working in a family business for a large part of his life. The switch from manufacturing to writing came surprisingly easily for him. His passion for writing began at age 12, mostly writing poetry and short stories. In 1999, the chance came to write scripts. Zsolt took some time off from his family business to write in Jakarta Indonesia for MD Entertainment. Having written dozens of soap operas and made for TV movies, in 2003 Zsolt returned to the family business once more. In 2018, he had the chance to head back to Asia once again. He took on the challenge to be the COO for MD Pictures and get back into the entertainment business. The entertainment business opened up the desire to write once more and the words began to flow onto the pages again. He decided to rewrite a book he began years ago. Organ House was reborn and is a fiction suspense novel while Scars is a young adult drama focused on life’s challenges. After the first two books, his desire to write not only became more challenging but enjoyable as well. After having several books completed he was convinced to publish them for your enjoyment. Zsolt does not tend to stay in one specific genre but tends to lean towards strong female leads and horror. Though he also has a few human interest books, he tends to write about whatever brews in his brain for a while.