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Real Love Fears Hurting You. Selfish Love Fears Losing You.

They can look identical from the outside. The difference is in what drives the behavior when things…

The Right Way to Fight for a Deeper Connection

Most couples think less fighting means a healthier relationship. Here’s what actually predicts a…

What Your Silence Says About Your Relationship

Somewhere in nearly every long relationship, silence starts doing more talking than words do…

The Right Way to Hold Eye Contact for a Deeper Connection

There’s a moment in almost every relationship where two people quietly stop looking at each other…

The Balance of Wants/Needs, Equity Theory

Equity theory says imbalance breeds resentment. Other research says keeping score does too. Here’s…

One Fake Post Can Move Markets, Minds, and Millions

From a hacked AP tweet to deepfake CEOs, real cases show how one unverified post can crash a market…

A collective. Thousands of Individual Minds

The research behind why social media algorithms amplify anger, what Neuralink is and isn’t actually…

You Shall Be Assimilated, Resistance Is Futile!

We Are Being Turned Into a Collective I keep coming back to the same image. A collective. Thousands…

Everything Is a Scam!

Politics, banking, love, medicine, religion, sport, social media. Same machine, different branding…

With Your Ex: Why It’s Usually a Mistake

The odds of successfully getting back with an ex are lower than nostalgia makes them feel. Here’s…

An Ex Is An Ex For A Reason!

There’s a special kind of nostalgia that hits around 11 pm on a Tuesday. You’re scrolling, you’re…

The Quickest Way to Lose Your Peace Is to Give Someone a Piece of It

Peace of mind is a resource. How you spend it determines how much you have left. Stop handing it to…