With narrative examples from“The Could Have Been Man.”
THE COMPLETE GUIDE TO WRITING A BOOK
You Too Can Write a Book
Writers often believe they need training or permission to write a book. You do not. You need a clear process, clear goals, and the ability to start. My own path began with soap operas. Then film. Only later did I write novels. That journey shaped how I build stories. I focus on clarity and character choices. This guide shows you the same approach.
Let’s make the process easier to follow. We use one reference story throughout this guide. The story is a simple drama called “The Could Have Been Man.” It is about an old man who never married, never built a family, and now spends his days alone on a park bench feeding pigeons. He narrates pieces of his past with regret and honesty. Each step in this guide uses his story to demonstrate what you should do in your own book.
Why You Write, and Why It Matters More Than You Think
You sit down to write because something inside you refuses to stay quiet. You might want to tell a story, build a world, or leave something behind long after you’re gone. None of that happens unless you understand why you’re doing it. A clear purpose keeps you steady when the work feels slow or when you’re doubting yourself.
How to make this real? You’re going to meet someone who could have used this chapter decades earlier. His name is Harold, but the neighbourhood calls him the Could-Have-Been Man. He spends most days on the same park bench near the old fountain. He feeds a small group of pigeons that gather around him. People walk past him without thinking twice. He notices everything. He notices the parents, the couples, the noise, the silence, and how time moves, whether you want it to or not.
Harold never wrote the stories he carried. He used to keep ideas in a folded notebook. He had a plan for a small novel about a boy who learned to fix clocks. He kept another idea about a retired detective solving one last case. None of the ideas reached a first draft. At first, he ran out of time. After that, he ran out of confidence. Later, he convinced himself it didn’t matter. Years passed. The pages yellowed. Then the notebook disappeared during a move. Harold assumed writing was something he had missed his chance on. He settled into a routine. Now he feeds pigeons and tries not to think about what he abandoned.
Be Creative and Follow Harold
You don’t want Harold’s ending. You want your words on a page, in a file, in a finished book. You want something you can point to with pride. So before you get lost in structure, character arcs, or editing theory, stop and answer the questions Harold avoided.
Why are you writing this book?
What do you want your reader to feel?
What do you want your work to leave behind?
Writers who skip these questions tend to drift. They write in circles or abandon what they start. Writers who take fifteen quiet minutes to think through their purpose finish more often. You don’t need a perfect mission statement. You just need clarity. A simple sentence is enough, such as:
“I want to help a first-time writer finish their book.”
“I want to share a story that has lived in my head for ten years.”
“I want to teach something I learned the hard way.”
Get Back To The Keyboard
Purpose keeps you moving when pressure hits. When I wrote my first long project, I nearly quit halfway through. I didn’t like the middle chapters. I thought the entire concept might be weak. The only thing that pushed me forward was remembering why I started. I wanted to show myself that I could complete something difficult. That reason pulled me back to the keyboard every time.
Think of Harold again. Each morning, he wakes up early. He sits on the same wooden bench with a small paper bag of crumbs. The pigeons run toward him. Some jump onto his shoes. He talks to them quietly. You can hear him if you walk close enough. He tells them stories he never wrote. He describes worlds and characters,s and twists. He does it for free and for no audience. He could have shared these stories with thousands if he had taken the first step, then the next, then the next.
Finish What You Start!
Our task in this chapter is to avoid becoming him. The moment you write your purpose down, you become someone who will finish.
Here’s what you can do right now:
• Write one sentence about why this book matters to you.
• Write one sentence about what you want your reader to gain.
• Write one sentence about how your life would change if you finish.
• Write one sentence describing what will happen if you don’t.
Writers respond well to honesty. When you see the cost of inaction clearly, you stop wasting time. You avoid what Harold became. He is a reminder, not a warning. He shows you what happens when desire meets hesitation for too long.
As you go through this guide, you’ll come back to him at key moments. His story will help you stay grounded in your own. You’ll watch how small decisions shape his life in the park. You’ll see how a shift in his day can push him out of his usual pattern. And unless something big happens, he stays in character.
No Writer’s Conviniences Here!
This is important. Characters must act in ways that match who they are unless something strong enough forces change. In Harold’s case, the only thing that could alter him would be a real shock. Something that breaks his routine. Something like someone hurting his favourite pigeon. A moment that forces him to stop accepting the life he settled for.
Keep this in mind when you write your own characters later. For now, stay focused on yourself. You’re here to finish a book. You’re here to avoid regret. You’re here because you don’t want to wake up years later feeding pigeons with stories stuck in your throat.
Your writing starts with purpose. Set it down. You’ll need it for every chapter that follows.
Zsolt Zsemba
THE COMPLETE GUIDE TO WRITING A BOOK
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