What is cheating?
What Actually Counts as Cheating (More Than You Think)
Cheating isn't just physical. Liking spicy posts, hiding your relationship status, DMing strangers, entertaining interest at parties. Here's where the line actually is.
Communication
Basic Communication in Relationships Is Either Holding You Together or Tearing You Apart
Good morning. How was your day. A reply that doesn't take three hours. These basics aren't optional in a relationship. Here's why the small stuff decides everything.
Be respectful
Respect Is the Foundation of Every Strong Relationship
Love gets the credit, but respect does the work. Here's why respecting your partner's wishes, being honest, and sharing common goals is what actually holds a relationship together.
I want you!
I Don’t Need You. I Want You. That’s the Point.
Need is not a foundation for a relationship. The only reason to be with someone is because you genuinely choose to be. Here's why want beats need every time.
Decisions...
Buridan’s Donkey Died Because It Couldn’t Make a Decision. Sound Familiar?
Buridan's Donkey Died Because It Couldn't Make a Decision. Sound Familiar? Meta description: A 14th century thought experiment about a donkey that starved between two bales of hay is the most accurate description of modern decision paralysis ever written. Here's what it means for you.
I am trying
A Relationship Will Never Work When Only One Person Wants It To
You can't carry a relationship alone. No matter how much you want it to work, how hard you try, or how long you wait, it takes two people who actually want to be there.
I want you!
We Don’t Need Each Other. We Have to Want Each Other.
Most relationships fail because people confuse love with need. They believe needing someone is romantic. It isn't.
Zsolt Zsemba
I Never Planned to Be a Writer. I Just Kept Coming Back to It
From Hungary to Canada to Jakarta to Bali, Zsolt Zsemba's writing journey is anything but straight. Here is the story behind the books, the blog, and the belief that kept him going.
You Are Not Cynical.
You Are Not Cynical. You Are Exhausted From Hoping.
A calm relationship starts to feel wrong somehow. Flat. Like something is missing. And because the relationships that felt electric were also the ones that caused the most damage.
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