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Read more about the article The Avoidant Partner Isn’t Cold, They’re Numb
What are you avoiding?

The Avoidant Partner Isn’t Cold, They’re Numb

  • Post author:Zsolt Zsemba
  • Post published:July 8, 2026
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Why avoidant partners go quiet, dismiss your concerns, and don't recognize their own emotional emptiness as the problem. A look at the research behind avoidant attachment.

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Read more about the article Trust Is Not Something You Decide to Give
'Trust' illustrated amidst fiery ruins and lightning

Trust Is Not Something You Decide to Give

  • Post author:Zsolt Zsemba
  • Post published:May 25, 2026
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Trust is not something you decide to give. It gets taken from you slowly by people who smiled while they were doing it. Here is what betrayal actually does, and how to build trust again without handing yourself over.

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Read more about the article PERSONALITY IS WHAT YOU CALL IT WHEN YOU STOP QUESTIONING IT

PERSONALITY IS WHAT YOU CALL IT WHEN YOU STOP QUESTIONING IT

  • Post author:Zsolt Zsemba
  • Post published:January 23, 2026
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You do not need to agree with this. You only need to notice what you keep repeating and ask whether it still deserves the job.

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Read more about the article If Nobody Was Watching, Would You Still Make the Same Choices?

If Nobody Was Watching, Would You Still Make the Same Choices?

  • Post author:Zsolt Zsemba
  • Post published:January 15, 2026
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Most people do not live the life they want. They live the life that gets the least resistance. When nobody is watching, the truth becomes uncomfortable.

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