I want you!
I Don’t Need You. I Want You. That’s the Point.
Need is not a foundation for a relationship. The only reason to be with someone is because you genuinely choose to be. Here's why want beats need every time.
You Are Not Cynical.
You Are Not Cynical. You Are Exhausted From Hoping.
A calm relationship starts to feel wrong somehow. Flat. Like something is missing. And because the relationships that felt electric were also the ones that caused the most damage.
A young man observes glowing silhouettes walking through a rainy Tokyo street at night.
In Ten Years, Your Friend List Will Look Nothing Like Today
Your best friend at 30 may be a stranger at 40. Here's why friendship drift is normal, what drives it, and how to stop feeling guilty about it.
A woman in a mustard sweater touches her reflection thoughtfully in a bedroom mirror.
If You Don’t Know Who You Are Alone, Relationships Will Confuse the Hell Out of You
If you haven't figured out who you are on your own, every relationship will expose it. Here's what self-knowledge actually changes.
Lovers & Strangers
Lovers and Stangers
We started off as strangers, randomly meeting, randomly falling in love. Out of all that randomness came happiness, pleasure, joy, and friendship.
Love, Money, Indonesia
Lust and Money: What Some Indonesian Women Are Really After
Some women in Bali are not looking for love. They are looking for lust and money. Here is what expat men need to understand before it costs them more than just cash.
Meditation and wellness
The Power of Wellness, Kindness, and Fairness
The Power of Wellness, Kindness, and Fairness
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