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Read more about the article You Didn’t Think About How Your Actions Would Affect Me
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You Didn’t Think About How Your Actions Would Affect Me

  • Post author:Zsolt Zsemba
  • Post published:October 5, 2026
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The quiet cost of not being factored into someone's decisions, and why thoughtlessness deserves the same attention as intent.

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Read more about the article Not Meaning to Hurt Me Isn’t the Same as Caring Enough to Stop
Caring

Not Meaning to Hurt Me Isn’t the Same as Caring Enough to Stop

  • Post author:Zsolt Zsemba
  • Post published:October 4, 2026
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The gap between good intentions and real change, and why grace without adjustment slowly turns into permission.

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Read more about the article Commitment Isn’t a Feeling, It’s a Decision You Make Every Single Day

Commitment Isn’t a Feeling, It’s a Decision You Make Every Single Day

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  • Post published:October 2, 2026
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Nobody tells you this part when you're standing at the altar. You don't fall in love once and coast on it for forty years. You fall in love, and then…

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10 Harsh Truths

10 Harsh Truths I Learned the Hard Way Over The Years

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  • Post published:October 1, 2026
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Ten hard truths about love, growth, and struggle I learned the hard way over twenty years, broken down fast and straight.

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Read more about the article If Your Absence Doesn’t Bother Them, Your Presence Never Mattered
If they wanted to, they would.

If Your Absence Doesn’t Bother Them, Your Presence Never Mattered

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  • Post published:July 18, 2026
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When someone wants to, they will. Because when you wanted to, you did. Actions already answered the question you keep asking.

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Read more about the article Carrying Someone With You After They Are Gone
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Carrying Someone With You After They Are Gone

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  • Post published:May 10, 2026
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Grief does not disappear. It changes shape. A personal look at loss, memory, and how the people we love most stay with us long after they are gone.

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Lovers & Strangers

Lovers and Stangers

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  • Post published:May 4, 2026
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We started off as strangers, randomly meeting, randomly falling in love. Out of all that randomness came happiness, pleasure, joy, and friendship.

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The Happiness Trilogy: 2 of 3-Part Blog Series

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  • Post published:December 21, 2025
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The Happiness Factor: How Your Relationships Shape Your Physical Health and Longevity

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The Zeigarnik Effect!

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  • Post published:December 19, 2025
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Unfinished emotions haunt us more than completed love stories.

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