Skip to content
Zsolt Zsemba
  • My Books
  • Blog
  • Spotify
  • LinkedIn
  • Contact Me
  • Social Media
    • X
    • Tumblr
    • Pocket
    • Facebook
    • Pinterest
    • Reddit
    • Instagram
    • Tiktok
    • Youtube
  • Books
  • Toggle website search
Press Escape to close the search panel.
Menu Close
  • My Books
  • Blog
  • Spotify
  • LinkedIn
  • Contact Me
  • Social Media
    • X
    • Tumblr
    • Pocket
    • Facebook
    • Pinterest
    • Reddit
    • Instagram
    • Tiktok
    • Youtube
  • Books
  • Toggle website search
Search this website
Read more about the article We Don’t Need Each Other. We Have to Want Each Other.
I want you!

We Don’t Need Each Other. We Have to Want Each Other.

  • Post author:Zsolt Zsemba
  • Post published:June 21, 2026
  • Post category:blog,

Most relationships fail because people confuse love with need. They believe needing someone is romantic. It isn't.

Continue ReadingWe Don’t Need Each Other. We Have to Want Each Other.
Read more about the article Trust Is Not Something You Decide to Give
'Trust' illustrated amidst fiery ruins and lightning

Trust Is Not Something You Decide to Give

  • Post author:Zsolt Zsemba
  • Post published:May 25, 2026
  • Post category:blog,

Trust is not something you decide to give. It gets taken from you slowly by people who smiled while they were doing it. Here is what betrayal actually does, and how to build trust again without handing yourself over.

Continue ReadingTrust Is Not Something You Decide to Give
Read more about the article What Your Texting Habits Say About You
A man checks his phone while enjoying coffee and a pastry in a bustling café

What Your Texting Habits Say About You

  • Post author:Zsolt Zsemba
  • Post published:May 17, 2026
  • Post category:blog,

Texting in Relationships: How Much Is Too Much Meta description: From five-hour silences to anxious rapid-fire messages, here's what your texting habits actually say about your relationship expectations.

Continue ReadingWhat Your Texting Habits Say About You
Read more about the article Dating? You Will Never Be Done Dealing With This
Those walls and obstacles.

Dating? You Will Never Be Done Dealing With This

  • Post author:Zsolt Zsemba
  • Post published:May 12, 2026
  • Post category:blog,

Nobody warned you it was going to be this hard. Past hurts, guarded hearts, overthinking, and a social media ecosystem designed to make trust almost impossible. Dating was never easy. Now it is structural.

Continue ReadingDating? You Will Never Be Done Dealing With This
Read more about the article You Cannot Build Depth While Chasing Shallow Rewards
Chasing shallow rewards in the digital world

You Cannot Build Depth While Chasing Shallow Rewards

  • Post author:Zsolt Zsemba
  • Post published:April 17, 2026
  • Post category:blog,

If your attention is everywhere, your connection will be nowhere. Depth requires focus, and most people are too distracted to build it.

Continue ReadingYou Cannot Build Depth While Chasing Shallow Rewards
Read more about the article The Power of Openness

The Power of Openness

  • Post author:Zsolt Zsemba
  • Post published:October 25, 2024
  • Post category:blog,

I know that I don’t want to be with a drinker, smoker, or someone obsessed with cats.

Continue ReadingThe Power of Openness
Read more about the article The Swipe Culture
Social media and love

The Swipe Culture

  • Post author:Zsolt Zsemba
  • Post published:August 7, 2024
  • Post category:blog,

The Swipe Culture: How Social Media is Redefining Love and Loyalty

Continue ReadingThe Swipe Culture
Read more about the article Need a “Foreign Husband” Consultant. Part 2

Need a “Foreign Husband” Consultant. Part 2

  • Post author:Zsolt Zsemba
  • Post published:June 27, 2024
  • Post category:blog,

Forget the hype! Explore the reality of finding love online as an Indonesian woman. Uncover alternatives to "foreign husband" consultants and discover how to build a fulfilling life grounded in self-worth. (Indonesian Dating, Foreign Spouses, Online Relationships, Love Advice)

Continue ReadingNeed a “Foreign Husband” Consultant. Part 2
Read more about the article Men, If You Are Poor…

Men, If You Are Poor…

  • Post author:Zsolt Zsemba
  • Post published:June 5, 2024
  • Post category:blog,

If you are a poor man don't fall in Love? Yes, I saw one of these damn posts again on social media and it made me upset.

Continue ReadingMen, If You Are Poor…
  • 1
  • 2
  • Go to the next page

Join 456 other subscribers

Recent Posts

  • Phrases That Build More Secure Love
  • You Are Not Broken, You Are Becoming
  • Phrases That Make a Relationship Feel More Secure
  • 7 Rules for Actual Mental Health
  • How to Be Present All the Time (Because You Already Are)

More Books

  • John Doe vs Evil : Jöhn Döe vs Evil
    John Doe vs Evil : Jöhn Döe vs Evil
    August 10, 2021
    0 Comments
  • How to create good employees. : A short guide to good employees.
    How to create good employees. : A short guide to good employees.
    July 2, 2022
    0 Comments

Follow Me

  • Share on Facebook (Opens in new window)Facebook
  • Share on Telegram (Opens in new window)Telegram
  • Share on Reddit (Opens in new window)Reddit
  • Share on Pinterest (Opens in new window)Pinterest
  • Share on X (Opens in new window)X
  • Share on Threads (Opens in new window)Threads
  • Share on WhatsApp (Opens in new window)WhatsApp
  • Share on Tumblr (Opens in new window)Tumblr
Copyright 2026 - Zsolt Zsemba
Loading Comments...

You must be logged in to post a comment.