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Letting Go

Letting go is part of life, how do you cope with it?…

Bali Did Not Break Her. Bali Just Showed Her the Door.

Thousands of young women arrive in Bali every year looking for a fresh start. What happens next is…

Lust and Money: What Some Indonesian Women Are Really After

Some women in Bali are not looking for love. They are looking for lust and money. Here is what expat…

She’s Not Looking for Love. She’s Keeping Score.

Some women in Bali treat foreign men as trophies, not partners. Here’s what expat men need to know…

When Allah Takes a Back Seat: Bule Fantasy, Religion, Money and S*x!

A minuscule percentage of a 300 million strong population. But small numbers doing visible damage to…

Sex, Manipulation and the Game Nobody Wins

Some women use sex as a weapon. Some men take exactly what is on offer and nothing more. And…

Sleeping With Many Men Does Not Make You an Expert on Men

She says she understands men because she has been with many of them. But what she actually…

They’re Teaching the Next Generation How to Hunt

There is a woman sitting somewhere in Bali right now explaining to a 19 year old girl exactly how to…

She’s Not Into You, She’s Into Your Wallet

You thought she was different. Warm, attentive, always there. But there is a pattern underneath the…

What Indonesian Women Really Think About Bule Hunters (And Why It Matters)

Before we talk about how Bule Hunters operate, let us start with something that might surprise you…

When Greed Becomes the God: How Some Women Trade Their Soul for a Bule

A corrupt heart destroys itself. Not eventually. Not maybe. Here is what really happens inside a…