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Embracing Introversion and Responsibility. Part 3.

Responsibilities…

Money Comes From? Today, we can say, it comes from good planning, stocks, crypto, and business of course. Back then all we knew was hard work. Work hard, get money. Work hard, work smart, and get more money. As we grew, so did the business.

Yes, I had a hole in my shoe and waited till the next paycheck to get new ones.

Oh yeah, rarely known fact in our circles because people can see what you have and not where you come from. We helped cut the grass and take out the garbage, and yes both my brother and I have all our fingers and toes. I don’t see many 11-year-old kids mowing the lawn now, do I?

Learning Responsibility.

A well-kept house, taking out the garbage, and washing the car all sort of became our responsibility. We helped to build a deck and a patio, so yes, I know how. We stripped the paint off the deck and repainted it. We used a drill and a spinning wire brush to strip the paint and used a sander to prep the surface. We were able to paint and deck and we learned valuable skills along the way. What kid does that these days? Maybe ones that live on farms and ones who see their parents’ hands on.

What we didn’t know at the time was, we were not only learning how to do things but how to work together. We learned this as my brother and I played sports as well. More and more teamwork and more and more responsibility also equaled a hard day’s work and a paycheck. Not many kids know how to do any of that shit these days. In many ways it’s sad and in many ways, I am happy that they don’t. Mixed feelings about this.

Further Growth

As we grew up, the business grew. We moved from Toronto to Caledon. At this point, my parents were still working full time and working on the business after work until midnight most nights.

Eat, sleep, work, eat, sleep, work some more.

The orders came, the business grew, we took on flyer routes and delivered newspapers as well as continued our regular activities. At this point, we were better off but this is where high school hit us hard as kids.

We never felt like the other kids and for me, the sports, work, and being responsible took over, I think. For one we never had much time to goof around. Yes, we did get to go out on Friday nights, and Saturday nights but we always knew work was waiting at home. Mom and Dad could always use a hand. Something could be done, some things had to be done and others must be done. Work equaled money, money equaled a better life.

Zsolt Zsemba

Zsolt Zsemba has worn many different hats. He has been an entrepreneur, and businessman for over 30 years. Living abroad has given him many amazing experiences in life and also sparked his imagination for writing. After moving to Canada from Hungary at the age of 10 and working in a family business for a large part of his life. The switch from manufacturing to writing came surprisingly easily for him. His passion for writing began at age 12, mostly writing poetry and short stories. In 1999, the chance came to write scripts. Zsolt took some time off from his family business to write in Jakarta Indonesia for MD Entertainment. Having written dozens of soap operas and made for TV movies, in 2003 Zsolt returned to the family business once more. In 2018, he had the chance to head back to Asia once again. He took on the challenge to be the COO for MD Pictures and get back into the entertainment business. The entertainment business opened up the desire to write once more and the words began to flow onto the pages again. He decided to rewrite a book he began years ago. Organ House was reborn and is a fiction suspense novel while Scars is a young adult drama focused on life’s challenges. After the first two books, his desire to write not only became more challenging but enjoyable as well. After having several books completed he was convinced to publish them for your enjoyment. Zsolt does not tend to stay in one specific genre but tends to lean towards strong female leads and horror. Though he also has a few human interest books, he tends to write about whatever brews in his brain for a while.