It takes two
You Chose Them. Now Act Like It.
The Decision You Keep Making Choosing someone doesn't happen once. You don't make that call at the beginning of a relationship and then coast on it for the next decade.…
Sitting in the quiet...
Nobody Warns You About the Quiet Kind of Lonely
Missing your partner's subtle hints isn't always cruelty. Sometimes it's just not paying attention. Here's why unnoticed communication quietly destroys relationships.
When you know, you know.
You Can Feel One Thing and Decide Another. That’s Not Confusion. That’s Being Human.
Feelings and decisions are not the same thing. You can love someone and still decide to leave. Understanding the difference changes everything.
What are you avoiding?
The Avoidant Partner Isn’t Cold, They’re Numb
Why avoidant partners go quiet, dismiss your concerns, and don't recognize their own emotional emptiness as the problem. A look at the research behind avoidant attachment.
A man walks along a winding road at sunset in a scenic rural landscape
The Best Things You Can Do for Yourself Cost Nothing
Walking, sunlight, sleep, push-ups, no sugar. The most effective self-improvements are free. The only price is willpower and it's always in stock.
Text me!
Texting Psychology: We Need To Text.
What's actually happening when someone can't stop checking their phone. The psychology behind the texts that hold attention without trying too hard.
Ade Habibie and his art
Monkeying Around With Ade Habibie
A random walk across the street in Bali turned into a conversation with artist Ade Habibie, part of Indonesia's Habibie family, at Blue Karma Creative Space in Seminyak.
A hiker stands on a rocky peak at sunset with a motivational mountain quote.
When They Question How You Live, These Are Your Answers
Short responses that hold the line and the longer version behind each one. For every question that's really just a challenge in disguise.
Stay calm...
How You Respond Says More Than What You Say
Your Vocabulary Is a First Impression That Never EndsMost people respond to charged questions the same way they always have. Short, defensive, reactive. They answer the surface of what was…
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