I don’t like change she said.

We all must change.

I have had a few people write to me about blogging, about New Year’s resolutions. Many people wrote to me about business and the local business goal in my TikTok. 

I will assume they are excited about starting off the new year with many having goals of making changes. Many look forward to a better year. One more fruitful, profitable, and stable. Yet this one comment hit me.

I don’t like change.

When I was chatting with this woman on Instagram I had to wonder. I did understand her comment but when I explained that changes will need to be made if you want a different future, she agreed.

I don’t like change.

So this is the point here. If one wants to move forward in life, one will need to make changes. This is very important because if you want to try something new, there will be changes in your life. If you want to lose weight, there will be life changes you need to make. 

If you want to open up a restaurant, there will be changes in your life and you cannot, not like changes. If you start anything in your life you will have to change. Relationships, business, diet, and exercise will all come with a certain amount of change in your life. 

Without changes, you will not move forward. Thus change is inevitable unless you can live under a rock for the rest of your life. 

Change is exciting. 

We are all creatures of habit, I am. I like to do and experience new things. Yet I always go back to my habit of waking up early, getting things out of the way before most people are awake. When people message me if I am up or ready, I am like…

I have posted all my social media, got a blog or two written, and yes I already had my coffee and breakfast. 

I am a creature of habit and when people say they do not like routine and they never experience the same day twice, I do not believe them. 

We all have our routines. We all have the things we like to do and make time for. So changing all that is hard. But I will say this instead. 

We modify and adjust.

When we start something new, we modify our life. We add things in and take things out and prioritize our life according to our newest involvement in something,

This could be the relationship we started, the new job the new friend, or a new house and a new pet. We build and prioritize our life and our routine. Change is inevitable and therefore you need to check in with yourself and see what change you may want to make, and what goals you are setting. 

Setting a plan into action is the most important thing an individual can do. As I always say in my TikTok videos, planning is everything. From your personal life to business and life in general. Once you figure out these little things and make a proper plan you will be all the better off. 


Published by Zsolt Zsemba

Zsolt Zsemba has worn many different hats. He has been an entrepreneur, and businessman for over 30 years. Living abroad has given him many amazing experiences in life and also sparked his imagination for writing. After moving to Canada from Hungary at the age of 10 and working in a family business for a large part of his life. The switch from manufacturing to writing came surprisingly easily for him. His passion for writing began at age 12, mostly writing poetry and short stories. In 1999, the chance came to write scripts. Zsolt took some time off from his family business to write in Jakarta Indonesia for MD Entertainment. Having written dozens of soap operas and made for TV movies, in 2003 Zsolt returned to the family business once more. In 2018, he had the chance to head back to Asia once again. He took on the challenge to be the COO for MD Pictures and get back into the entertainment business. The entertainment business opened up the desire to write once more and the words began to flow onto the pages again. He decided to rewrite a book he began years ago. Organ House was reborn and is a fiction suspense novel while Scars is a young adult drama focused on life’s challenges. After the first two books, his desire to write not only became more challenging but enjoyable as well. After having several books completed he was convinced to publish them for your enjoyment. Zsolt does not tend to stay in one specific genre but tends to lean towards strong female leads and horror. Though he also has a few human interest books, he tends to write about whatever brews in his brain for a while.

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