How positive are you?

Let the positivity flow.

Time heals all wounds however, the memories last. There is no delete button or “remove trash” button in our heads. We all have those memories and bits and pieces of information that we wish we could delete. 

My ex-wife’s sister was married to a person in Medan. I knew they were a strange couple and yet my ex asked me not to say anything when we were on our way to Australia as her sister was to marry an Australian. 

These are hard times and one struggles with so much information at times that we all wished we had a way of forgetting. Hypnosis may work… 

You will have hard times. 

Look ahead and be brave. Why is it so hard to put the past behind us? Because we all have amazing memories and so many places trigger all those good and bad memories. I think what works best is to force yourself to move forward. You will have had times, and you will have lonely times. 

You will have times when you feel you want to curl up and die…

You won’t because you are so much stronger than that. You have been through hard times, you have been through sad times. You have experienced loss in the form of relationships, pets, and partners. You may have lost money, friends, and family members to arguments, misunderstandings, or out of pure stupidity. 

The lack of answers.

When you know someone has lied to you it is very difficult to separate lies and truth from them afterward. It is so hard to trust someone that has lied, cheated, or stolen. How is it possible that a lie or theft is a one-time thing? How many times has it happened before and how many times may it happen again? 

Liars lie and cheaters cheat.  It’s a simple equitation. It is a simple process like building a house. One lie at a time, and eventually one of those bricks comes to lose and bam. The whole house comes crumbling down. 

So let’s be positive!

Think of all the good times in life.  I hope that the good times outweigh the bad ones. I hope the good times will overcome the negativity even when you feel at your lowest. 

Go out and talk to people, go out even if it is a walk. A lonely walk down the street while you watch the happiness in others. For me it is writing, I write and write until I release the pain. I write, I make stories, and yes, pretend I am in a better place sometimes. However, the story comes out, my truth is told and I move on. 

This is not the first nor the last time we will be hurt. So be careful, learn and read all the signs, the little red flags. For goodness’ sake, speak up. If something is out of sorts, if something is not right or does not feel right, talk about it. 


Published by Zsolt Zsemba

Zsolt Zsemba has worn many different hats. He has been an entrepreneur, and businessman for over 30 years. Living abroad has given him many amazing experiences in life and also sparked his imagination for writing. After moving to Canada from Hungary at the age of 10 and working in a family business for a large part of his life. The switch from manufacturing to writing came surprisingly easily for him. His passion for writing began at age 12, mostly writing poetry and short stories. In 1999, the chance came to write scripts. Zsolt took some time off from his family business to write in Jakarta Indonesia for MD Entertainment. Having written dozens of soap operas and made for TV movies, in 2003 Zsolt returned to the family business once more. In 2018, he had the chance to head back to Asia once again. He took on the challenge to be the COO for MD Pictures and get back into the entertainment business. The entertainment business opened up the desire to write once more and the words began to flow onto the pages again. He decided to rewrite a book he began years ago. Organ House was reborn and is a fiction suspense novel while Scars is a young adult drama focused on life’s challenges. After the first two books, his desire to write not only became more challenging but enjoyable as well. After having several books completed he was convinced to publish them for your enjoyment. Zsolt does not tend to stay in one specific genre but tends to lean towards strong female leads and horror. Though he also has a few human interest books, he tends to write about whatever brews in his brain for a while.

3 thoughts on “How positive are you?

  1. Hard to be positive always. I hold a lot of anger inside. But I live by my grandfather words. Keep the anger and negative words outside my home. This is house of love. Negative words and actions can create permanent separation. I use the count to ten before speaking often. Thank you for your worthwhile and powerful thoughts.


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